Saturday, September 27, 2008

Beliefs hidden like glass celing.

What's not apparent about the nature of Global Beliefs is that they're woven into the lens by which we interpret EVERYTHING.

If for example your Family of Origin had a Global Belief that was characterized by the following statement:

"Give em an inch and they'll take a mile"

Then you'd look at the world as if that pre-supposition was true.

... and you'd never even notice that this world view IS a PRE-supposition

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Half Empty or Half Full?

Frederick Maryland CDL Truck drivers

What do you think this guys Global Outlook on life is?

Is his glass Half Empty or Half Full?

That's what a Global Belief IS, it's an 'outlook on life'
You can't not have a Global Belief System (I know, that's a double negative, shoot me:)
You Have to have some kind of system to "Pre Sort" all incoming data.

  • is X 'for me' or 'agin me'?

  • Do I have to defend myself against what ever this new X, Y or Z is?

  • What's this tell you about how your 'outlook' pre determines what you're capable of, what you're willing to do or not do?

    A Global Belief is there... but it's insideous, because you don't KNOW it's there!


    it's there none the less

    Wednesday, September 10, 2008

    The Structure of Subjective Experience

    NLP has been described by its creators as “the study of the structure of subjective experience”. This merits further expansion:

    Subjectivity is distinguished from objectivity in both science and philosophy. Objectivity attempts to be the study of “reality”. Subjectivity by contrast is focused on how people experience and conceive reality. It assumes that whilst there may be an absolute reality, and knowing it may be beneficial, for the most part a person does not and cannot in fact “know” it, but can only know what they perceive, and what beliefs they form about it as a result. Thus whilst objectivity looks for true facts, subjectivity looks at perceived reality and personal beliefs.

    (A common example of the difference is, that in a dispute between people, often each side has their own view “what happened”. Whatever actually happened would be objective reality, whatever each side believed they experienced, saw, felt, heard, thought or believed would be their perception of reality. NLP by definition studies the latter, often highly relevant when exploring human mind and communication)
    NLP further claims that this subjective experience of reality is organized, that is, structured, and that the manner of organization varies significantly between individuals. It does not (at least in its original form) speculate as to a theory or science of experience. Rather it simply says, that for any person, their perceptions, thoughts and beliefs are not randomly collected, but are organized, structured and interconnected. Classical clinical psychiatry takes the same stance for example, when it views a person’s problems as stemming from childhood - the problem is not random, it has meaning and interconnection within the body of their experience

    NLP is a profoundly powerful suite of tools for dealing with people’s individual reality.

    NLP is about how our human brains think; how we can achieve change in our own lives; how we relate to other people; and how we learn from excellence.

    The core of the NLP understandings include how we deal with
    our own beliefs, our relationships and our perception of time.

    Tuesday, September 09, 2008

    What exactly ARE Beliefs?


    A Belief is nothing more than a
    "Feeling of Certainty"
    that something is going to happen.


    Tony Robbins from his 1988 Personal Power audio series.


    What do we mean by Global Beliefs?


    Global Beliefs as described by Tony Robbins are:

  • the fishbowl to the fish

  • the 'lens' through which we view EVERYthing

  • the 'parameters' by which we measure everything


  • Is X, Y or Z going to 'hurt me'?




      • Must I be in defensive mode?

      • Is X, Y or Z something I need to pay attention to because it's a danger to me?


    Or is X, Y or Z something that I'm going to like?



    • Can I relax?

    • Is this X, Y or Z something I want to look foreword to?

    • Is this something I want to encourage?


    Notice that all of the above are questions...


    What are questions?


    Evaluations- there are no questions that are not evaluations.



    Global Beliefs are something that you HAVE to HAVE, you can't NOT have one!!!


    There is no way around this painfully disguised fact.


    EVERY SINGLE HUMAN WITH A BRAIN BETWEEN THEIR EARS has to have "parameters" to categorize every single last 'byte' of incoming data.


    Just like a computer, you can't avoid 'parsing' data, to pre sort it.


    Global Beliefs are also mostly invisible to us.


    They're the kind of things that fall under the category of:


    "You can't see the forest for the trees"


    They're decisions we made by default. (notice that 's past tense)


    A decision made by not making a decision is a decision none the less!


    Who made this choices for us?




    A fish is vaguely aware that there's stuff outside the fishbowl... but he can't do anything about it... so it gets pushed deep down to his 'back burner"


    N.L.P or Neuro Linguistic Programming is:


    The Structure of Subjective Experience

    Friday, September 05, 2008

    Addiction Remedies -Heading East looking for Sunset

    Conventional Addiction remedies all stipulate that you've got to stop using (insert drug of choice) before they can help you.

    Fine, sounds good on paper.

    How many times have you tried to quit smoking cigarettes?

    You get to have total control over the "parameters" or how you "DEFINE" the measure of progress you're making towards conquering an addiction.

    Let's say you screw up...
    Is that 'screw up' a:

    Relapse?

    or a Slip?

    What ever you do, don't 'set your self up for failure', what CAN you do that's pro-active?

    Set a 'bottom line', experts define addiction as:

    a recurring self destructive behavior that you contine even after you see it has negative consequences.

    Wednesday, September 03, 2008

    Don't Give a Goal a Time Frame

    Don’t give a goal a time frame.

    Really. I mean it.

    If you specify a time frame you may be severely limiting your internal resources.

    come again?

    What if your subconscious can provide an answer, a result right now?
    what if it can solve the problem by this time tomorrow?

    Also specifying a time frame inadvertently saddles you with this pre-suppostion (which incidentally is a command to your inner resources)
    You’ve presupposed that you’re not there yet.

    Here is a line from one of my ebooks:

    Doing is Volts
    Being is Ohms


    Being out-performs Doing by ten to the twenty zillionth power
    (I just made that up)

    We all have:

  • A Left Brain

  • A Right Brain


  • http://www.funderstanding.com/right_left_brain.cfm
    Our left brain has been watching our right brain it’s whole life
    and he’s never seen him do anything!
    that’s because right brain’s job is being
    not doing

    Left brain is watching the volt meter of doing and correctly observing that his counter part, right brain is incapable of doing…
    the volt meter will not budge one iota

    Being is like ohms, conductivity, or Torque

    Doing is like Volts, or RPM


    If you need to know more about Volts and Ohms (sorry, my bad, my analogies are rather masculine...) see this post:

    http://www.dribin.org/dave/blog/archives/2003/12/29/amps_vs_volts/
    Have you ever tried to get juice flowing when you’ve got no conductivity?

    No wonder left brain has contempt for right brain,( http://victimbehavior.blogspot.com/2008/08/part-of-you-is-looking-you-with.html )
    he’s bitching and moaning because he’s stuck with right brain as a team mate!